Movies Rich in Theme ~ Nell

Here’s an amazing movie. Brilliant on so many levels. The plot itself is wonderful and enough to drive the story. But we see again another story where there is a theme underlying the plot. Nell is not just about a girl who has spent most of her life in isolation. In Nell, we are put face-to-face with the question about our place in the world–what is considered normal and sane in the way we live our lives. Two forces fight over Nell–those who want to let her keep her freedom, intent on proving that she can not just survive but thrive without society. And the others, those in “authority,” who insist Nell cannot care for herself, that she has to have others tell her what to think, eat, dress, how to act, and how to live in a way that is not just acceptable but healthy.

If you haven’t seen the movie, Nell is a young woman raised in the back country, who has never encountered or interacted with any people other than her family (don’t want to do a spoiler here). A delivery boy discovers her right after her mother has died, and that tragedy has left Nell bereaved and alone. A doctor is asked to go talk with her, and thus begins the story of how Jerry, and then Paula, live on the property and study Nell, trying to communicate with her and assess her mental and emotional state. Does Nell need to be put in a state home? Or can she live on her own. Who has the right to decide?

Small Things Are Big–and Not Just in Nell

Nell threatens the established norms, and as Jerry and Paula take her to court, in despair over her fate, Nell actually speaks up–in her strange manner of talking (because her mother, who had a stroke that impaired her speech, raised her with a warped version of English). To everyone’s shock, Nell presents herself, with the help of Jerry’s translating, as an intelligent, intuitive person. But most importantly, she understands the heart of life–what scares us, what moves us. Nell tells us that she knows small things–her world is small. And that her listeners know big things, there in the city, in the big world. Yet, she sees how no one will look each other in the eye. She sees everyone’s hunger for connection, for love, and asks why their world hasn’t given them either hope, love, or answers. She tells them she knows what it’s like to love and to lose those she loves. She makes it clear she is no different from anyone else. But she can accept that those things are part and parcel of life. If that scene doesn’t move you to tears, I would be shocked.

Nell Mirrors Real Life

In this beautiful, haunting speech, she reveals she knows far more than most of her listeners. She has a wisdom that comes from reflection and true living. She doesn’t just live in her world, she embodies it. She puts her opposers to shame with her honesty and compassion–something starkly lacking in those seeking to constrain her “for her own good.”

One of the minor characters, a deputy, has a troubled, depressed wife. He is racked with pain, unable to find a way to help her, to show her how to find joy and peace in her life. Yet, when this woman meets Nell, she finds the help she seeks. Just watching Nell, talking to her, and being comforted by this young woman, is the cure she needs. And there’s a poignant moment in the movie in which this woman looks at Paula, the state psychologist sent to assess Nell, and she says, “You were the first one to need her.”

Nell brings out many things in the people around her. They think they’re there to help her, but the opposite is true. They each need to learn something about their fears and hang-ups, and Nell mirrors them innocently back to them. Everyone who gets around Nell is changed, just by virtue of her genuineness.

 Deep Themes below the Drama

So, what theme is going on here? I see it as this: Nell is considered helpless and unfit. Society is needed to tell us how to live and function, and we must be a compliant participant in order to not just survive, but to enjoy life. Life has rules and we’re meant to follow them. Rules=happiness. The theme is that these are falsehoods. That sanity, happiness, functionality have nothing to do with society but have to do with your heart. That you can throw out every rule that doesn’t speak to your heart because, in the end, those rules will not serve you or anyone else. That you have to face your fear and your pain to get to the raw truth of who you are. And that’s too scary for most people, yet Nell, of all people, is there. She embraces her pain and loss in a beautiful acknowledgment that this is life–in all its beauty and despair. She challenges each one of us–can we live so honestly? How’s that for a BIG theme?

This week, watch Nell, if you haven’t seen it, or watch it again and jot down the moments when the themes come front and center. See if you can catch any subtler themes as well. Here’s one of the trailers, which I feel captures some of the themes.

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  1. Gad! Barnes and Noble still haven’t sent me Strictly Ballroom yet! That, where I am was the only place I could order it..Now I’ve got to search for Nell ~ this movie I remember well, I watched it years ago whenever it came on TV. There was a period some years back when escaping the pain of my world “four spine surgeries over twelve years” when I was always doing things that would take my mind off pain. Of course good books can do that, however when your along in your world, going into anothers, takes you out of your own. This story is proof of that in it’s own way. Once again, you’ve picked a great movie…..applauding here!!!

  2. This movie is new to me. The different plot levels sound intriguing. It looks like something I would probably enjoy. But I am always nervous to try out some of the modern (as opposed to period movies) because I don’t want to see all that sex and hear the swearing.

  3. Diane, it’s a beautiful movie. It does have some nudity but there’s a reason for it. I found it tasteful, and I don’t recall any swearing but if it’s in there, it would be mild. It’s definitely worth watching!

  4. Great movie and great assessment of the theme. Yes, even on simplistic levels this movie screams of finding what truly moves you and then breaking your mold to achieve it. It also questions the way we judge others according to societal norms that change with the will of large groups of like-minded people. Sad that it leaves little room for those of different points of view.

    Thank you.

  5. Oh, yes, Nell is one of my favorite movies for so many of the same reasons you’ve listed. One of my favorite scenes is her farewell to her mother – so simple, so poignant, so lovely, with the daisies on the eyes… but there’s deep mourning under the unschooled ceremony.

    Now I will have to pull it out and watch it again! Thank you for the reminder.


  6. It’s been so many years since I’ve viewed this film, but it impacted me deeply. The themes of coming into language lend themselves to a number of pychoanalytic interpretations as well. I find that almost any film, even ones that intend to have entertainment value only, have layers, because all of our recognizable narratives have some sort of meaning (semiotic).

    What I recall about Nell (and it’s been so long) was the quality of the acting (so heartbreaking to see Laim Neeson and Natasha Richardson together in this clip), the depth (layers as you note) and thoughtfulness of the story, and the questions it bears in terms of what makes us happy and/or fulfilled in our lives of accoutrements and social mandates.

    Diane, there are loads of contemporary films without gratuitous sex or “language.” Personally, if sex has meaning in a film I’m fine with it, and as a writer I don’t often use a lot of language, but I respect how it reflects real living in some households. And sometimes an f-bomb seems appropriate and real. At the same time, I wanted to recommend The Descendants to my mother, and I think she’d have found the story interesting, but it had too much language for her to be comfortable.

  7. I have not seen this movie, but I will find it. Your description of it reminds me of my 28-year-old daughter who is MIMH, mildly autistic, and has Aspergers. I encouraged her to always try for the things she wanted. she could do it, etc. However, due to some horrific things done to her by some so-called ‘friends’ I had to make the decision to become her legal guardian to protect her. Nothing in my life has been as hard as telling a judge that she could not function on her own and I should be her legal guardian. I seemed to be telling her that all the encouragement over the years was a lie. I am writing a book about our journey called Not Different Enough.

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